(latinidad is a horrible anti-black anti-indigenous concept).

But I hate that so much of latina performance/aesthetic is about romance (not looking forward to valentine’s day).

juanga said it best,

“Hasta que te conocí, vi la vida con dolor
No te miento, fui feliz, aunque con muy poco amor
Y muy tarde comprendí que no te debí amar
Porque ahora pienso en ti más que ayer, mucho más”

tbh I don’t think there are any cis men reading this but if there are, APOLOGIZE RIGHT NOW TO EVERY WOMAN YOU WERE EVERY ROMANTICALLY INVOLVED WITH — EVEN IF SHE BLOCKED YOU STILL SEND THE TEXT (unless she abused you ofc).

And maybe just maybe some of that energy will circle back around to me and give me the apology I fucking deserve! A long letter, a big ass ramo of both flowers and cash, a spa day, a concert, a bike (RIP). Bro like I really got a pat on the back and was sent on my way. And then when I was like ooh bitch you’re kind of self-centered and aren’t processing this shit, I got told I was being hurtful. Which I was, but YOU WERE FIRST mamaguevo. Wow this feels colonial. Talk about the colonialism/terrorism chicken/egg paradox.

Anywho, yes I can be mature and just but doing that while you prioritize convenience, compartmentalization, and lack of accountability is soooooooooo. ew. that’s nasty. and like, news flash! a breakup is inherently painfully if you loved the other person. welcome to the world hunny bunches of oats ❤

P.S. cis men will really self-isolate and call that processing. Some of them become philosophers because of it!!!!!!!!! oh em gee, this is sick.